My Response to a VERY STUPIDLY worded article

I am not going to post the article because I do not want to encourage such rubbish disguised as an article. If you want to read it as a reference you can click on the link below.

http://nigeriaworld.com/articles/2008/sep/171.html

Below is my response

Ok. I absolutely HATE the tone of this article. There is NO reason, I repeat NO reason why anyone should kills, consider killing, even lay a hand on a woman. These men are cowards and a disgrace to Nigeria and humanity. TUFIAKWA!! What a shame. Women, if you are in an abusive relationship; Speak up! Get help! Get Out! There is no reason why anyone should live in abuse. All these women are hardworking women who came to America and worked hard to make a life for themselves and their family.

Now, the whole attitude about bringing a woman to the USA and her bringing wahala. That idea need to be squashed. If a man is insecure that a woman is working hard to help provide for her family, get over it, get a better job, GET YOUR OWN DANG NURSING LICENSE! Is it only your wife who can go to school for a degree. If you are a controlling husband, you are a dang fool! Onukwu, Do you think a man get's respect by forcing respect??! If you do not know how to carry yourself as a man; with great confidence because you love, support, cherish your family then you have some growing up to do.

I am dissappointed by this umuazi. These small boys of 40,50,60 who call themselves men. You don't get respect by being power hungry. You get respect by loving the people God put in your life. You get respect by loving your family and protecting them not by hurting them. You get respect by taking care of the wife you vowed to love. If your woman offends you, you don't hurt them. You lovingly remember they are human too. They are flawed. You pray for God's grace and you call some responsible brothers to give you good advice.

You handle your wife with care and she will respect you. You don't even have to ask for it. You kill her with kindness and she'll melt.

God! This is not rocket science! I am frustrated that this Aha horo men are ruining for good men like my dad, my brothers and a lot of good Naija men I know and love. Jesus help us all.

Ladies, if you are having problems please find some good people to share it with. God friends that will help you not people pleasers who will advice you to keep quiet and just manage. Find friends who will tell you the truth. Join a good church. Not these churches that are just for fashion shows but churches that preach the truth. Churches that teach good values and character.

Remember you are not alone. DO NOT BE A STATISTIC! PLEASE

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NAIJA

I just want to use this opportunity to say
HAPPY 48TH BIRTHDAY NAIJA!!!

We have come a loong way since 1960. Unfortunately I have been out of the social networks for a little while and I am out of the loop when it comes to events. I also live in Denton now. Maybe I should take a trip down to Houston this weekend and have a PROPER celebration.